07.05.05
Interview with Meghan Part One.
Getting other people’s opinions and comments can give you some great insight, especially if the knowledge is coming from a female.
Interview with Meghan Part One.
In this show you’ll hear how to recognize which girls want to be approached, what to say and what not to say. You’ll learn about fashion do’s and don’ts, how to pass a woman’s test, and grooming. You will learn how to talk to girls at a party and if it matters what you say. Next you will learn the differences between a nice guy and a cool guy. Finally you will learn about ways to setup future meetings, signs to look for that a women is interested in you and how to get physical with a woman.
Remember to keep checking back for part two!
Show Download:
- Interview w/Meghan Part 1. (mp3) - Size: 6.92mb - Time: 30m 22s - Producer: B. Goetz
FatherB said,
July 9, 2005 at 9:42 pm
Hey man! Great show.
You should however add a part at the end where you go sum up the good stuff you can extract from this girls advice, and where your “experiences” differs from what she’s sharing. Some guys may not be capable of sorting useful from less useful advice.
Maximus said,
July 22, 2005 at 5:20 am
Hey Jedimaster! What a fantastic show!
I just wanted to let you know that Meghan gives GREAT insight in the female brain, this stuff is really RARE, it is at least of the same quality as David D.’s interviews ..
I suggest ALL males should listen to what she has to say. She points out so many great points, but the problem with the majority of the guys is that they often screw it up with the little things. Again pay attention to what Meghan says, e.g. don’t be too complementary in the beginning, don’t bomb her with boring questions, make sure you are well dressed, make sure you smell good, make sure you pass her shit tests, be funny, but most important of all don’t act like you’re hitting on her (especially important with very hot women who get hit on all the time) and have fun!
Another last thing I wanted to add, I didn’t hear this tip on this show, when you’re having a good conversation with a hot women, don’t talk with her for too long, changes are you will say something that will upset her or put her off, so talk to her for about 5-20 minutes, get her digits/e-mail, say I enjoyed talking to you and I might give you a ring later and call her after a few days. When you take her on a date, make sure the first date isn’t a movie/dinner date, I suggest you take the girl for a coffee at Star Bucks, go for a walk in the parc, go for a walk on the beach, go iceskating, do something original! It’s important to have a good time and spend some time talking first (again don’t talk too much and for too long, avoid subjects like politics, religion and ex-girlfriends) because you want to get to know a girl first before you spend too much money on a date that won’t get you laid
After you’ve had a succesful first date, I suggest don’t make it longer than an hour for reasons mentioned above, you can see if this girl is worthy of your time..
The last thing I wanted to say is keep up the good work man!
Meghan said,
July 25, 2005 at 12:04 pm
Hello!!! I am happy to hear that people are enjoying the show! I’d like to respond to the last comment from Maximus…
Concerning having a conversation with a hot woman, or any woman for that matter…
I would LOVE if you could work up enough confidence to assume that you wouldn’t upset her or put her off. Plus, if you’re having a great conversation, why would you leave? Unless, of course, you and your friends need to go. My question, however, is if you are staying, where are you gonna go? If you’re in a bar or at a party with your friends, are you just going to walk 10 feet away? If things are going well, my advice is to stay put! If she looks like she’s having fun but says something like, I came here with my friends I should really hang out with them, then you can say I should do the same, and ask her for her number, tell her you had fun talking to her and you hope to see her again. Otherwise, hang out and have fun!
The Movies
I agree that the first date shouldn’t be a movie. Unless, when you met, you were both very excited about something that was coming out. Personally, I went to a movie on a first date once. I think it was Scary Movie 2… And then we went for a walk on the beach. I had a great time!!!
Bringing up the X
If you are on your first date, or first few dates, avoid talking about X’s at all costs!!! If the girl brings up your past, keep it short and simple.
For example, if she asks how many serious relationships you’ve been in, be honest and try to merge on to another topic. If she persists you can say something like… they just didn’t work out. I’ve had some really good learning experiences and feel like I now know what I want and don’t want from a relationship. And then totally drop it! Don’t ask her what she has done. If, for some reason, she asks you how many people you have been with, she isn’t classy and not worth your time! I might be old-fashioned, but I feel this just should not be brought up on a first date. I feel that you don’t ever need to talk about it if you don’t want to.
Time
I don’t think that you should put an emphasis on or even think about the length of your dates. Just, go out and have fun. If your first date is turning into a marathon, then so what?! If you’re enjoying yourself and she’s enjoying herself, then great!!! Isn’t that what dating should be?
Well, I hope this helped! Please remember that I’m just one girl and what I say won’t be what ever other girls thinks and feels. So, just go out there, be yourself and have a good time.
Meghan
Maximus said,
August 3, 2005 at 9:02 am
Hello!!! I am happy to hear that people are enjoying the show!
> Hi Megan, I LOVE your insights, I believe they are VERY helpful for loads of guys out there. Besides all this you have an absolutely wonderful voice to listen to.. I think the voice tone of a male/female says A LOT about the person, you sound like a great fun girl to me
I’d like to respond to the last comment from Maximus…
> I feel honored that you take your precious time to comment on me
Concerning having a conversation with a hot woman, or any woman for that matter…
> I prefer hot woman myself
I would LOVE if you could work up enough confidence to assume that you wouldn’t upset her or put her off.
> Personally I am a pretty good in having long and interesting conversations with (hot) women, but I have two good reasons why I give the guys out there the advice to keep a conversation short:
> 1) most guys talk about STUPID and IRRELEVANT stuff like: Rape, kidnapping, stalking, death, chess, computers, comic books, Star Wars
and their secret love for martial arts.. Don’t do this guys!! First of all girls are NOT interested in this stuff and you might end up upsetting them, show interest in them instead of talking about yourself!
> Another quick tip: when girls ask you the ‘buying questions’ don’t answer them directly but give them a funny answer, e.g. if they ask you do you have a girlfriend say “yes my wife is waiting at home with the kids and my girlfriend just rang me” and before she thinks wow this guy is a real jerk you can say something like you dork, you are so gullible , of course I don’t have a wife or a girlfriend (with a big smile on your face) or when she asks you what kind of job do you have, say something like: “do you know these hot actors that show their ass on television, that’s what I do I am a stunt ass” *LOL*, and when she says “really?” you can say something like “yeah, it’s a hard job but someone has got to do it”. To summarize don’t always give a direct answer, be unpredictable and funny.
> 2) it is good to build the tension, I love to see them getting more and more interested in me, I like them to want more of me, I like to make them curious. I like to be mysterious. My personal experience is that this is a VERY powerful tool..
Plus, if you’re having a great conversation, why would you leave?
> To summarize: I advice guys to leave early to prevent saying something stupid, unless you have great conversation skills like me ;-), and to make her want more of you..
Unless, of course, you and your friends need to go. My question, however, is if you are staying, where are you gonna go? If you’re in a bar or at a party with your friends, are you just going to walk 10 feet away?
> I personally would leave and therefore would talk to the girl either just before I go away or I would go to the girl I like straight away and arrange her contact info and then go to another club/party/bar..
If things are going well, my advice is to stay put! If she looks like she’s having fun but says something like, I came here with my friends I should really hang out with them, then you can say I should do the same, and ask her for her number, tell her you had fun talking to her and you hope to see her again. Otherwise, hang out and have fun!
> Yes, I have done this before and this can lead to, hmm how shall I put this, quick physical contact and I personally prefer to get to know the girl first before getting into that.
The Movies
I agree that the first date shouldn’t be a movie. Unless, when you met, you were both very excited about something that was coming out. Personally, I went to a movie on a first date once. I think it was Scary Movie 2… And then we went for a walk on the beach. I had a great time!!!
> I agree with you on that one, but I think going to the Movies is such a cliché, it is very predictable/boring and you can’t talk to each other, so you can’t really build the attraction/tension level. Although you can easily make out in the cinema, it is something I don’t prefer anymore, because I really like to get to know the girl, e.g. to see if her wonderful looks match her personality. Going for a walk on the beach is a GREAT idea, I love doing that and I think girls think that’s very romantic too. Going for a bike ride/walk in the park or ice-skating together can be another nice thing to do..
Bringing up the X
If you are on your first date, or first few dates, avoid talking about X’s at all costs!!!
> Guys, LISTEN and MAKE NOTES, this is a MAJOR mistake a LOT of guys make!
If the girl brings up your past, keep it short and simple.
> I couldn’t agree more!
For example, if she asks how many serious relationships you’ve been in, be honest and try to merge on to another topic. If she persists you can say something like… they just didn’t work out. I’ve had some really good learning experiences and feel like I now know what I want and don’t want from a relationship. And then totally drop it!
> Excellent advice here! E.g. if you would say 2 or 3, she will think that you lye or that there’s something wrong with you, if you say 20 or 30 she thinks you are a player. I personally like to say “I have had several girlfriends and I like to believe that only an experienced lover can be a great lover”
Don’t ask her what she has done. If, for some reason, she asks you how many people you have been with, she isn’t classy and not worth your time! I might be old-fashioned, but I feel this just should not be brought up on a first date. I feel that you don’t ever need to talk about it if you don’t want to.
> I agree! You definitely shouldn’t ask such a question, neither should she. The reality is that a lot of girls do, either forget about them or play around the bush (I will let you use my answer), never give a straight answer for reasons mentioned above..
Time
I don’t think that you should put an emphasis on or even think about the length of your dates. Just, go out and have fun. If your first date is turning into a marathon, then so what?!
> I disagree, make the first date short and original, go and meet up for a tea or a coffee (for a walk in the park), get to know the girl first! See if she doesn’t flake on you, see if she looks nice without make-up (if you have met her in a bar/club, I personally prefer natural beauties) see if she respects you by being on time (I never wait for longer than 15 minutes, unless she calls me and has a DAMN GOOD reason for being late) and see if she has a sense of humor. If she passes your tests, than meet up with her a couple of days later for a second/third date etc..
If you’re enjoying yourself and she’s enjoying herself, then great!!! Isn’t that what dating should be?
> Yes, I mean there aren’t rules that always count in this matter. You can have a great date, you can even end up getting physical on the first date. Anything can happen, it is a personal choice you have to make. I prefer to build the tension and spend more time with the girl I like on a slower pace..
Well, I hope this helped! Please remember that I’m just one girl and what I say won’t be what ever other girls thinks and feels.
> I would like to add two things. All girls are different, but not THAT different, this especially counts for very HOT girls, which I think you are, or else ZD wouldn’t have invited you *LOL*
So, just go out there, be yourself and have a good time.
> Oh yes, go out, have fun, relax, chill and use the tips ZD, Megan and I have been giving you and you won’t find enough time in your agenda for all the HOT ladies that will be stalking you