02.08.06
Interview with Kimberly
Interview with Kimberly
Kimberly discusses a wide variety of topics from first impressions to phone game. Learn why you shouldn’t be that into a woman and how it helps you.
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- Interview with Kimberly (mp3) - Size: 16.8mb - Time: 36m 45s - Producer: S. Han
Maximus said,
February 9, 2006 at 12:46 pm
Hi guys,
I would like to state all my comments on this interview below, I would like to thank ZD for interviewing Kimberly and sharing this usefull information and I would like to thank Kimberly for taking the time to make good PUA’s GREAT!
- I thought a great point Kimberly mentioned was attitude, it is so important to be confident, to be arrogant and don’t care what others think. You will subcommunicate you’re not a needy person and the girls will feel attraction for you!
- Another good point mentioned was to physically escalate halfway the date, it is Hollywood B.S. that you have to wait untill the end of the date, you put to much pressure on yourselve and you put too much importance on the whole thing!
- It is a good point to leave a voice mail message and tell her what you want to do with her, hi Kimberley I just called you, I enjoyed conversation with you last night and there is this great show going on, I’d like to take you there on Xday, call me. Or you call her and say hi, it’s Max and I really need to tell you something about you and then don’t leave a message (it’s called a cliff hanger). This stuff is field tested and trust me it works!
- Good point to take a girl to a coffee or tea on the first date, don’t make it longer than 20 minutes and be the first to leave. I say NEVER, EVER go on a dinner date on the first date!
- I suggest you take her for the second date to your home, so she can cook for you or you can cook together. Or be adventurous, take her bungee jumping, go rafting, take her for a walk on the beach, do something else than 99% of all the other guys do!
- Good point, don’t leave after you have got her number, or else it seems like you only talked to her for her number.
- Another good point, get her number on Friday and call her on Saterday afternoon, you don’t have to wait three days, there are no rules for this!
- Personal tactic that I use, don’t call her after a great first date, she will wonder why you haven’t called, this works very well with models and other good looking girls, I can tell because I have experienced it myself. The girls said to me, I don’t understand why you didn’t call me, all the other guys call me or text me all the time.
- Gooid point, use situational opinion openers, you can always ask the question ‘what’s the story behind that’, e.g. hi, you have a beautifull necklace, what’s the story behind that and after that you can go into rapport questions.
- Another good point, don’t ask for a number like she can say no, instead say let’s continue this conversation another time, let’s exchange numbers or what’s your number.
-I have a question for Kimberly, I understand she doesn’t like guys who stand out for the wrong reasons, but what about ‘peacocking’ (think Neil Strauss and the Mystery Method), what if a guy has golden shoes, a cool white jacket or black nails or piercings, or a funny t-shirt, this could be all kind of ways to open the guy for a girl.
- Let the woman chase, you are the prize, she isn’t, very good point Kimberly! I mean at the end of the day it’s not the woman chosing, it’s the man, the man can choose to approach anyone he likes, the woman can only choose from the guys that approach her!
- NEVER buy a girl a drink, it gives a needy vibe, it says you are an excuser/supplicator (study PUA Shark if you don’t know what this means), it means you need to buy her affection, she can buy MY affection, I’m not tight, but I don’t like to buy people things if they don’t deserve it, first I’d like to find out if she is good enough for me.
- Good point about the body language, a girl can tell a lot about a guys because of his body language, so correct it if it’s wrong, study the Alexander technique, see a chiropractor, go to the gym, correct it if necessary!
- Eye contact is an IOI, but I think you always have to take the initiative. Always say hi to a girl, if she says hi back you can go into your opener. Another question for Kimberly, I personally use a direct opener after I have made eye contact, something like, I like you and would like to get to know your or you are beautiful I like to get to know you or if you look at me like that you can talk to me or can I ask you a question, are you shy and she says way, because you have looked at me and haven’t said hi yet. Well these are all direct openers and sometimes I just walk up to a woman and she starts kissing me even BEFORE we have talked, just because of the chemistry between us. I would say use a direct opener after IOI’s and indirect openers if she hasn’t seen you yet.
- Good point, don’t start asking too many questions after opening, it’s looks like your desperate for rapport, you’re too needy while doing that, instead talk about 5 interesting topics, topics that interest woman, please DON’T talk about work or where she is from, talk about what her hobbies are, if she has travelled a lot, talk about food, relationships, music, childhood, interesting stuff!
- Last question for Kimberly, why start the opion opener after a standard bar greeting, hi can I buy you are drink, or what do you think of the band, I would come in with a direct opener, I would cut the BS if the chemistry is already there, if it isn’t there than I would see if you can be interesting enough for me to start liking you and vice versa. So what’s up with he needs to buy me a drink first, only needy guys would do that, guys that would chase you, a self confident man wouldn’t do that or do you disagree?
- Last, but not least I would like to say it’s a good strategy to treat her like your bratty little sister in the beginning, be C&F. This is the typical David DeAngelo approach. You can also qualify her from the beginning, say something like, you are beautiful, but beauty is common, you’re lucky in the gene pool, so what? Great outlook on life and positive energy are exceptional, if you would have to name three things that make you special, what would they be?
Ciao,
Maximus
darius said,
February 14, 2006 at 1:24 am
good post, glad to see you back in business
Donovan said,
March 17, 2006 at 2:16 pm
Motha! Why not just create a podcast?